Not everyone who passes through your life deserves the honor of staying in it.

Not everyone who passes through your life deserves the honor of staying in it.
March 5, 2026

Put people in the place they put you.
Give them attention only in proportion to what they showed you in deeds, not in talk.
Rank them in your life as they ranked you in theirs.
Lower each person to their true place—without excuses you invent for them and without justifications that weigh down your heart.

Whoever chose to place you in a forgotten drawer,
their rightful place is to remain there—no higher than what they intended for you.

Not everyone who passes through your life deserves the honor of staying in it,
and not everyone who smiles at you is worthy of the privilege of your closeness.


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