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I sat on a mountainside with peace of mind
And I lay by the ocean
Makin’ love to her with visions clear
Walked the days with no one near
And I return as chained and bound to you
Sophie B. Hawkins Gave Us A Queer Pop Hit In The ’90s. Then Came The Backlash.
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Damn I Wish I Was Your Lover Original Music Video Sophie B. Hawkins
The original banned version of the video for Damn I Wish I Was Your Lover by Sophie B. Hawkins. Sophie’s record label at the time requested she film another version – the black and white version you’re probably more familiar with. Note the blue butterfly hands and the fingers walking up her cheek and how those moves reappear in her later videos.
I Think About the Song ‘Damn, I Wish I Was Your Lover’ a Lot
Can you share a positive example of where you’ve felt loved?
Tomorrow, I’ll be another year older. Yay. Not exactly thrilled. I’m posting early since weekends tend to get busy for me. I even ordered vegan cupcakes and vegan ice cream from Walmart. 😺


To: Jessica Marie Koehn (aka “Miss Kitty”)
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Today I learned I’m approximately 75% German and 25% French. My third great‑grandfather on my paternal grandmother’s side was French. My paternal grandfather’s family was German, and my maternal side is entirely German. They immigrated to America before World War I. I still can’t find much about my paternal line, but I’m excited by this discovery.
I’m not really a fan of Stoicism, but I haven’t really given it a fair chance, so I decided to download Meditations by Marcus Aurelius and Seneca’s Letters on Ethics. I have a tendency to cherry pick quotes for inspiration though, so I looked up some from Seneca.
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